The challenge I chose to imagine was: my fiance got sick and was unable to work. We did not have any answers from doctors about why he was sick. I would need support from both our families, emotional and physical support. I would need their help watching our daughter while we spent time with the doctors and appointments. We would need financial support, as he is the main bread winner and my income would not hold our bills for very long.
The supports I have in my life are desired but not necessary. I was taught to fight for what I need and desire. With that said, some support is always needed. It may be in the form of physical help to keep a home clean and function, it may be in someone watching your children to allow you to work. I am truly thankful for all the support I receive from family and friends to achieve my dreams.
Megan
ReplyDeleteI like how you state that you feel you do not need it because you were taught to fight. This is great, however there are times when we just absolutely need that other person, we need to put down our boxing gloves and let it all out. For me, I need these moments and I need that shoulder to cry on, even if it is just to listen or give me a hug and tell me that my efforts are worth it. It is fantastic that you have a strong, caring relationship with your fiance. A partnership, especially when raising children is one that needs to be supportive. You have to be able to share in the responsibilities and support one another.
I agree. When I commented that I was taught to fight, I meant if by chance I found myself alone. I lean on my fiance for almost everything, we are a true partnership. Our daughter is just four months old and not a stationary child. She is constantly wanting to move or needing attention. She can play by herself but only for a short amount of time. If it weren't for him I don't know how I would be completing this masters program. Thank you for the comment and kind words.
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ReplyDeleteYour story is inspiring, I hope your fiancé gets well soon. Keep on fighting, there are better days ahead.
This was very touching, I enjoyed reading it and I pray for the best for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteWe all need someone or something as our support system. Life is not always fair continue to fight and keep your head up. I have a child care bussiness and if it was for my husband I do not know what I woud do. I lean on him a lot even though he is sick. Do not leave you fiance out even though he is sick. I pray he gets well.
ReplyDeleteMy husband is my biggest support as is your fiancé. We have built a life together and I could not go at it alone. He too is a great father and I could not imagine what I would do if he were to get sick and was unable to help provide financially. This blog exercise has caused me to look at things differently and to be grateful for what I have and appreciate him more. I would be lost without him.
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